I just received a phone call from my Dad this morning. For some reason I answered like I was at my job at the Holiday Inn instead of the BLM. That strange little reaction added some joviality to an otherwise somber conversation. He called to inform me that my Grandma had just passed away. It wasn't really a shock, she had been ailing for quite some time and we all know that she feels much better now.
I'm sad, but I'm not devastated. When I heard the news I couldn't help but think on all of the wonderful memories she gave me. I will be eternally grateful for how she welcomed my wife into our family. JoLynn loved Grandma desperately for this. I'll always remember her house. Running up the path on the south side. The endless sea of juniper bushes in the backyard on the other side of the steps. Painting the roof with crazy aluminum paint. Hidden cookies and candies. Stacks of white bread with dinner. Traveling across the country in their motor home. Camping trips and family reunions. Jeff staggering out of their motor home, for a skit, with his pants stuffed with a pillow saying "I can't believe I ate all of it!" Their house packed full of cousins at Christmas. Swinging on the last baluster at the bottom of the stairs. Times when Grandma would tell Grandpa to hush when she thought his teasing went too far. Seeing her hold my sons for the first time. I'll love her forever for not giving a damn where they came from or what color they were.
Most of you who read this will know all of these things already. But I just felt like I should record this flood of thoughts I'm having. If Viola (she always hated that name!) Geertson Packer was your grandma think of all the wonder and joy she brought to your life. If not, remember your grandma and think of her.
5 comments:
Hey Nate,
James and I just want you to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. What great memories that you shared. What a great lady and grandma
Great Post. Grandma's are the best! Sorry for your loss.
Grandma qualified as several really cool things. She treated my wife the same way she did yours--the way she treated everyone--like they were the most important person in the world. We will all miss her.
I was as close to Grandma as any of my blood grandparents. I loved her and I will miss her.
I couldn't agree more with everything that has been said! I too love her like my own blood Grandma. She is a wonderful, wonderful Lady and the BEST GRANDMA and GREAT GRANDMA EVER! I love the way she loves our Boys and how she lit up when she was able to hold them or get hugs from them. Thanks Babe, for honoring her so well! I too will miss her, but am so glad we have such awesome memories and an example to follow. Grandma Packer was a delight to be around always!
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